The Fourfold Desire of a Real Man:

 

The Fourfold Desire of a Real Man:

BEAUTY, CHARACTER, DELIGHT, AND PEACE. IF YOU WANT TO MARRY A REAL BROTHER DEVELOP THESE TRAITS



I. Beauty: More Than the Eye Can See

1. Physical Attraction is the Invitation, Not the Foundation
 A man is visual by nature. Beauty draws his attention, but it doesn’t keep his heart. Real men don’t confuse lust with love — they know that physical appeal is simply the gateway to deeper connection. They want a woman who takes care of herself, not for vanity’s sake, but as a reflection of self-respect and stewardship over the body God gave her.

2. Inner Radiance Outshines Outer Glamour
 True beauty flows from within. A joyful spirit, a kind word, and an encouraging presence make a woman magnetic long after youth fades. Proverbs 31:30 reminds us: “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Real men understand this — they are drawn to a beauty that is both seen and felt.

3. Presentation Reflects Purpose
 How a woman presents herself — her dress, posture, and demeanor — often signals how she views herself and the relationship. A real man sees beauty not as perfection but as intentionality: a willingness to be her best self in his presence and in the world.

II. Character: The True Measure of a Queen

1. Trustworthiness is Irreplaceable
 No man wants to build with someone whose loyalty is uncertain. Integrity, honesty, and consistency are the pillars of character that make a man feel secure in love. He needs to know her word is her bond, that she speaks truth even when it’s uncomfortable.

2. Strength and Submission Coexist
 Real men don’t fear a strong woman — they cherish one who knows how to wield her strength with wisdom and grace. Strength doesn’t mean domination; it means resilience, discernment, and the courage to stand beside him, not compete with him. Submission is not subjugation — it’s alignment under a shared vision and purpose.

3. Character Shapes Legacy
 A man isn’t just choosing a partner; he’s choosing the mother of his children, the co-architect of his future, and the legacy they will leave behind. Character determines how she handles adversity, speaks of him in public, and carries their family name.

III. Delight: The Joy of Companionship

1. He Desires More Than a Partner — He Wants a Companion
 Delight is about joy, playfulness, and the spark that makes love feel like home. A real man longs for a woman who makes life lighter, who laughs with him, dreams with him, and turns ordinary moments into memories.

2. Delight Shows Up in Support and Encouragement
 When a woman celebrates his victories, believes in his potential, and nurtures his ambitions, she becomes his safe place. Delight isn’t just about fun; it’s about being for him — his biggest fan when the world doubts him.

3. The Intangible Energy of Delight
 There’s an unspoken energy that comes from a woman who delights in her man — it’s in her eyes when he walks into the room, in her voice when she speaks his name, in the joy she brings into his presence. That energy fuels his drive and deepens his devotion.

IV. Peace: The Crown Jewel of Love

1. Peace is the Antidote to Chaos
 A man who works, battles, and builds in the world seeks rest at home. Peace doesn’t mean silence; it means stability, emotional safety, and an environment where his soul can breathe. If the world is a war zone, home should be a sanctuary.

2. Emotional Maturity Creates Calm
 A peaceful woman isn’t without emotion — she’s grounded. She knows how to communicate without attacking, how to disagree without disrespect, and how to hold space without smothering. Her presence soothes rather than agitates.

3. Peace is the Soil Where Love Grows
 Conflict may ignite passion, but peace sustains love. It allows trust to deepen, intimacy to flourish, and purpose to manifest. A man will build an empire with a woman who brings him peace — but he will abandon kingdoms for the one who steals it.

✨ Final Thought: The Fourfold Desire of a Real Man

When a woman embodies beauty that inspires, character that anchors, delight that uplifts, and peace that restores, she doesn’t just capture a man’s heart — she cultivates it.
 In her, he sees not just a lover, but a legacy; not just a partner, but a purpose fulfilled.


  • KELVIN L. STUBBLEFIELD IS A GRADUATE OF Middle Tennessee State University IN 1983.




  • HE IS THE AUTHOR OF “AMERICAN REPROBATE: GOD’S CURSE AND RESTORATION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN”. THAT WAS PUBLISHED IN 2012.




  • HE AND HIS WIFE SANDRIA, CO-FOUNDED “BIGSTUB CREATIONS” IN 2018. We are a vehicle for creativity! Our mission is to encourage individuals to utilize their artistic expression through the performing arts.

  • He has recently published his second book in November 2023.




  • STAYING HUMAN: EXAMINING THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN GOD, MAN AND ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE”.

  • Biblical, Spiritual, and Social Analysis and Solutions to Black Americans and Mainstream AMERICAN Dysgenics, Narcissistic Self Indulgence, and the Current Politics of Self Annihilation. Amidst the dawning of Artificial General intelligence and Trans-Humanity.

  • YOU CAN PURCHASE HIS PUBLICATIONS OR LEARN ABOUT OUR NEXT PROJECT; YOU CAN VISIT THE FOLLOWING WEBSITES.


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