Ministering: Real Lovemaking is Spiritual
Ministering: Real Lovemaking is Spiritual
“A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband...” —Proverbs 12:4
There is a kind of intimacy far deeper than what happens between the sheets. A kind of lovemaking that transcends lust and even emotional connection—it is spiritual. It is the ministry of a man who has been shaped by the hand of YAHUAH, who pours wisdom into his wife not just through sermons or speeches, but through his very presence, his decisions, his leadership, and yes—even his touch.
In this age of dysfunction and diluted roles, we must return to the original design of YAH, where real manhood is priesthood—and where intimacy begins not in the body, but in the spirit.
1. She Can Trust in Him – The Spiritual Safety Net
“The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.” —Proverbs 31:11
Trust is not given. It is cultivated by consistency, spiritual covering, and emotional integrity. When a husband ministers to his wife, he provides wise counsel, spiritual leadership, and emotional discernment. She is not merely loved—she is secured. Her inner woman relaxes. She blossoms. She respects.
This is why many Black women instinctively flock to churches—not because of religious tradition alone, but because the soul yearns for righteous male leadership. For a man who walks in the fear of the Most High. A man whose love is an altar, not an ego trip.
2. Why So Many Men Fail to Minister
“For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.” —Proverbs 2:6
Today’s man is often disconnected from the Source. He chases mammon. He glories in his hustle, his body, or his brand—not his divine assignment.
Too many men today are physically potent, but spiritually impotent. They have muscles but no mission. They have charm but no covenant. And so their “lovemaking” is reduced to performance, not transformation.
This is why street icons and entertainers have replaced spiritual men as the ideal in the minds of many. Because our spiritual fathers and leaders have either failed, compromised, or become mere figureheads—symbolic, but not sacred.
3. Ministry as Lovemaking: The Power of the Spoken Word
“That he might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word…” —Ephesians 5:26
A true husband ministers to his wife with his words—spoken in truth, seasoned with wisdom, and rooted in love. His words don’t just correct; they cleanse. They do not just lead; they heal.
When a woman receives her husband's words with reverence, it is a form of spiritual intimacy as sacred as the physical act of sex. Just as she receives his body during intercourse, she receives his spirit through his speech.
This is what makes real lovemaking holy: the fusion of spirit, soul, and body in righteous alignment.
4. Seed of the Word, Fruit of Righteous Offspring
“His seed shall be mighty upon earth: the generation of the upright shall be blessed.” —Psalm 112:2
When a husband is filled with the Spirit of YAHUAH, he plants more than a physical seed—he sows destiny. His intimacy is not just passion—it is prophecy. Through his spiritual ministration and physical union, he deposits the potential for godly offspring, not just biologically, but ideologically.
This is why Satan targets the Black family. Because within it is the seed of nations. Righteous leadership in the Black home is not just personal—it is political, spiritual, and prophetic.
5. The Collapse of the Hedge: Why Black Communities Are Exposed
“I sought for a man among them… that should make up the hedge, and stand in the gap…” —Ezekiel 22:30
The family is the first battlefield. When the man no longer ministers, the woman is left vulnerable. The children are exposed. The hedge is broken. And the enemy comes in like a flood—through media, poverty, confusion, identity loss, and cultural degradation.
We are left with figurehead leadership—celebrities, preachers, politicians, and influencers who often lack true spiritual authority. Jesse. Al. Obama. They are idols—elevated not by their godliness but by cultural need and public image. This idol worship is a direct violation of Exodus 20:3:
“Thou shalt have no other gods before Me.”
We have traded the priesthood of the household for the personality cults of public men.
6. Returning to Yahauh: The Warrior’s Call to Minister
“Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.” —Philippians 2:12
This is not about church attendance. This is about full spiritual submission. A man must first minister to himself through repentance, worship, and study of the Word before he can minister to a woman.
He must regain the mantle of the spiritual king and priest. This means praying with authority. Speaking life. Rebuking demons. Blessing his home. Breaking generational curses. This is not weak religion—it is the mantle of David, the power of Samson, the faith of Abraham, the righteousness of Yahusha.
“He will give you the virtue of Daniel, the wisdom of Job, and the strength of Solomon.”
7. Brothers: Minister or Die as Pawns
If we do not rise, we will remain pawns in a society that seeks to emasculate, incarcerate, and exterminate us. The world fears a righteous Black man more than any weapon. Because a righteous Black man is a gatekeeper, a nation builder, a seed bearer.
And so the question is clear:
Will you minister, or will you mimic the world?
Will you speak life into your woman or merely sleep with her?
Will you lead with righteousness, or just rule with insecurity?
Will you stand before Yah and say: “Here am I, send me,” or will you pass that mantle to a politician?
Final Exhortation
Brothers, the bed is not just a place of pleasure—it is a place of prophecy.
Sisters, your womb is not just biological—it is spiritual soil.
When the two become one under the covering of the Most High, heaven and earth touch, and nations are birthed.
Return to the ministry of love. Real lovemaking is not just penetration—it is impartation.
KELVIN L. STUBBLEFIELD IS A GRADUATE OF Middle Tennessee State University IN 1983.
HE IS THE AUTHOR OF “AMERICAN REPROBATE: GOD'S CURSE AND RESTORATION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN”. THAT WAS PUBLISHED IN 2012.
HE AND HIS WIFE SANDRIA, CO-FOUNDED “BIGSTUB CREATIONS” IN 2018. We are a vehicle for creativity! Our mission is to encourage individuals to utilize their artistic expression through the performing arts.
He has recently published his second book in November 2023.
STAYING HUMAN: EXAMINING THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN GOD, MAN AND ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE”.
Biblical, Spiritual, and Social Analysis and Solutions to Black Americans and Mainstream AMERICAN Dysgenics, Narcissistic Self Indulgence, and the Current Politics of Self Annihilation. Amidst the dawning of Artificial General intelligence and Trans-Humanity.
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