Utility vs Corporeality: The Crux of Male /Female Relationships
Utility vs Corporeality
UTILITY FOR MEN BEAUTY AND SEX APPEAL
FOR WOMEN
Men are valued for their utility
Such as what he does or bring. Things Like:
Money
Riches
Job Skills
Job Titles
House
Car
Bank accoounts
Large penis
Muscles
Swagger
Street credibility
Dope
Excitement
Travel
Power
Fame
These are just some of the things men must be able to bring to the table when approaching today's modern woman. All these so called requirements can be summed up in one word."WORLDLINESS". Most women today don't love the things of God. They love the world and everything about it. So the men she aspires for must show an ability to conquer his portion of the world. Now don't get me wrong men should have a degree of diligence and strong work ethics. Because men should be willing to WORK and provide. However the woman with perverse desires often requires characteristics in men that violate the laws of God and man. They won't bad boys, pimps, thugs, dope dealers , gangster rappers, rich criminals etc. Whatever her requirement is it can be summed up as the man being a UTILITY. She needs to get him to "DO" something for her, or she will likely reject his advances.
The woman on the other hand does not have to meet that requirement , she doesn't necessarily have to "DO" anything but look good and possess a vagina. Because our culture is a sensate, hedonistic, pleasure loving culture that overvalues a woman's sexuality. She is put on a pedestal if she is seen as desirable. She knows that the world will open doors for her if she is the finest, sexiest fox out their. The woman is valued by her Corporeality she does not have to do, she just have to be.
Because our society is so sensate, WHORES, not virgins are put on pedestals. It is the loose woman that gets the notoriety, attention, money, fame , and offers of sex from many men. This makes the whore haughty, proud and cultivate a sense of entitlement. In other societies the whore would be scorned or even killed, but in America she is praised, and provided for
.
SHE GETS DIAMONDS FOR CHRISTMAS, HE GETS A DRILL.
Society and American commerce operate on the same principal of utility for men and Corporeality for women. I noticed years ago how Mothers Day, Valentines Day and Christmas, retailers like , Zales, Kay Jewelry, Jarrod's and other diamond retailers go all out in promoting expensive gifts for " The special woman in your life". While Home Depot, Sears, and Ace Hardware promote power tools for dad or that man in your life.
She gets to celebrate being, He gets to learn to appreciate DOING.
This social phenomena is the crux of
the male female dynamic. It is why women feel they can DO better and become dissatisfied with their men. Because they are overvalued by our society, and they feel their men aren't measuring up. A lot of women view themselves as Mercedes Benz's and the see their men as used up Ford pickup trucks and they subconsciously want to trade up. But what these women don't realize is God looks at a man's service as a great attribute. Christ demonstrated this when he washed his disciples feet. He told him that those who would be greatest among men must be willing to serve others.
Mark 9:34-36 (KJV)
34But they held their peace: for by the way they had disputed among themselves, who should be the greatest.
35[And he sat down, and called the twelve, and saith unto them, ] If any man desire to be first, the same shall be last of all, and servant of all.
Matthew 23:11-12 (KJV)
11But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.
12[And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.]
So it is actually the man who has the most value, not the woman's sexuality. A woman's true value lies in her VIRTUE. not her sexual prowess
.
Proverbs 31:10 (KJV)
10Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
God compares a woman's virtue to her weight in rubies. American and African American culture maligns a woman's virtue and instead tells her to place her value on her sexual desirability . This causes many woman to grow up insecure and with low self esteem because they can't measure up to Madison Avenue's definition of beauty and sex appeal. So many young and not so young women are forced to take great measures in order to feel beautiful. Hair weave, Botox, breast implants, butt implants, face lifts, color contact lenses all in order to feel pretty and sexy by our sick societies perverse standards. What we need to look at in women is mentioned by God's word in proverbs 31:10 - 31
10Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11[The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.]
12[She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.]
13[She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.]
14[She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.]
15[She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.]
16[She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.]
17[She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.]
18[She perceiveth that her merchandise ] is[ good: her candle goeth not out by night.]
19[She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.]
20[She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.]
21[She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household ] are[ clothed with scarlet.]
22[She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing ] is[ silk and purple.]
23[Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.]
24[She maketh fine linen, and selleth ] it[; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.]
25[Strength and honour ] are[ her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.]
26[She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue ] is[ the law of kindness.]
27[She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.]
28[Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband ] also[, and he praiseth her.]
29[Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.]
30[Favour ] is[ deceitful, and beauty ] is[ vain: ] but[ a woman ] that[ feareth the ] Lord[, she shall be praised.]
31[Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.]
God values a woman that is wise, beautiful, kind to the poor, and is not afraid of hard work. She is hearty, strong but yet still feminine. Her since of service makes her physical beauty blossom like a flower in bloom . She becomes a crown for her husband. She becomes his Help-Meet. This is the male female dynamic God intended for His children. Not this backwards one sided simp/whore dynamic that is incarnating it's wickedness in our society today and bringing about it's demise.
K.L. STUBBLEFIELD IS THE AUTHOR OF THE BOOK "AMERICAN REPROBATE: GOD'S CURSE AND RESTORATION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN.
You can order my book on
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/1466900237/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader_1466900237
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/c/k.-l.-stubblefield
http://www.booksamillion.com/p/American-Reprobate/K-L-Stubblefield/9781466900233
UTILITY FOR MEN BEAUTY AND SEX APPEAL
FOR WOMEN
Men are valued for their utility
Such as what he does or bring. Things Like:
Money
Riches
Job Skills
Job Titles
House
Car
Bank accoounts
Large penis
Muscles
Swagger
Street credibility
Dope
Excitement
Travel
Power
Fame
These are just some of the things men must be able to bring to the table when approaching today's modern woman. All these so called requirements can be summed up in one word."WORLDLINESS". Most women today don't love the things of God. They love the world and everything about it. So the men she aspires for must show an ability to conquer his portion of the world. Now don't get me wrong men should have a degree of diligence and strong work ethics. Because men should be willing to WORK and provide. However the woman with perverse desires often requires characteristics in men that violate the laws of God and man. They won't bad boys, pimps, thugs, dope dealers , gangster rappers, rich criminals etc. Whatever her requirement is it can be summed up as the man being a UTILITY. She needs to get him to "DO" something for her, or she will likely reject his advances.
The woman on the other hand does not have to meet that requirement , she doesn't necessarily have to "DO" anything but look good and possess a vagina. Because our culture is a sensate, hedonistic, pleasure loving culture that overvalues a woman's sexuality. She is put on a pedestal if she is seen as desirable. She knows that the world will open doors for her if she is the finest, sexiest fox out their. The woman is valued by her Corporeality she does not have to do, she just have to be.
Because our society is so sensate, WHORES, not virgins are put on pedestals. It is the loose woman that gets the notoriety, attention, money, fame , and offers of sex from many men. This makes the whore haughty, proud and cultivate a sense of entitlement. In other societies the whore would be scorned or even killed, but in America she is praised, and provided for
.
SHE GETS DIAMONDS FOR CHRISTMAS, HE GETS A DRILL.
She gets to celebrate being, He gets to learn to appreciate DOING.
This social phenomena is the crux of the male female dynamic. It is why women feel they can DO better and become dissatisfied with their men. Because they are overvalued by our society, and they feel their men aren't measuring up. A lot of women view themselves as Mercedes Benz's and the see their men as used up Ford pickup trucks and they subconsciously want to trade up. But what these women don't realize is God looks at a man's service as a great attribute. Christ demonstrated this when he washed his disciples feet. He told him that those who would be greatest among men must be willing to serve others.
Mark 9:34-36 (KJV)
34But they held their peace: for by the way they had disputed among themselves, who should be the greatest.
35[And he sat down, and called the twelve, and saith unto them, ] If any man desire to be first, the same shall be last of all, and servant of all.
Matthew 23:11-12 (KJV)
11But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.
12[And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.]
So it is actually the man who has the most value, not the woman's sexuality. A woman's true value lies in her VIRTUE. not her sexual prowess
.
Proverbs 31:10 (KJV)
10Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
God compares a woman's virtue to her weight in rubies. American and African American culture maligns a woman's virtue and instead tells her to place her value on her sexual desirability . This causes many woman to grow up insecure and with low self esteem because they can't measure up to Madison Avenue's definition of beauty and sex appeal. So many young and not so young women are forced to take great measures in order to feel beautiful. Hair weave, Botox, breast implants, butt implants, face lifts, color contact lenses all in order to feel pretty and sexy by our sick societies perverse standards. What we need to look at in women is mentioned by God's word in proverbs 31:10 - 3110Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11[The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.]
12[She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.]
13[She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.]
14[She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.]
15[She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.]
16[She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.]
17[She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.]
18[She perceiveth that her merchandise ] is[ good: her candle goeth not out by night.]
19[She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.]
20[She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.]
21[She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household ] are[ clothed with scarlet.]
22[She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing ] is[ silk and purple.]
23[Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.]
24[She maketh fine linen, and selleth ] it[; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.]
25[Strength and honour ] are[ her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.]
26[She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue ] is[ the law of kindness.]
27[She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.]
28[Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband ] also[, and he praiseth her.]
29[Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.]
30[Favour ] is[ deceitful, and beauty ] is[ vain: ] but[ a woman ] that[ feareth the ] Lord[, she shall be praised.]
31[Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.]
God values a woman that is wise, beautiful, kind to the poor, and is not afraid of hard work. She is hearty, strong but yet still feminine. Her since of service makes her physical beauty blossom like a flower in bloom . She becomes a crown for her husband. She becomes his Help-Meet. This is the male female dynamic God intended for His children. Not this backwards one sided simp/whore dynamic that is incarnating it's wickedness in our society today and bringing about it's demise.
K.L. STUBBLEFIELD IS THE AUTHOR OF THE BOOK "AMERICAN REPROBATE: GOD'S CURSE AND RESTORATION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN.
You can order my book on
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/1466900237/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader_1466900237
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/c/k.-l.-stubblefield
http://www.booksamillion.com/p/American-Reprobate/K-L-Stubblefield/9781466900233
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