THE KARMA OF FORNICATION PT-2: THE IMPORTANCE OF MINISTERING AND FORMING OF SOUL TIES
THE KARMA OF FORNICATION PT-2
THE IMPORTANCE OF MINISTERING AND FORMING OF SOUL TIES
The growing phenomenon of supposedly lovely black women who for some reason can’t find husbands in America in 2025 is no accident. There are laws that govern the universe. A universe that was designed by an omnipotent, omniscient ELOHIM. An ELOHIM that knows the end from the beginning, an ELOHIM that is not mocked.
We black people in America have adopted a heathen ideology that runs counter to our original design. A design that was of Yahuah's own blueprint. We were and still are, PECULIAR people. A people who was designed to reflect the image of ELOHIM on the earth. We were designed to be vessels of honor in our master’s house, refined as fine gold, even the golden wedge of Ophir. Yet our glitter has departed from us. Our visage has grown dim. Why? Is the question all people who are seeking truth should ask themselves.
The answer is simple. There are universal laws that govern our reality. Gravity is a universal law that operates in our dimensional realm and shapes our reality. We know that if we jump off a two-hundred-foot cliff that we will die because of gravity, so we don’t jump off that 200-foot cliff, unless we have a parachute.
However, the same laws that we understand and obey in the physical realm also exist on the spiritual nonphysical plane. We however live for the flesh which only cares about all things physical yet the spiritual is higher than the physical as heaven is higher than the earth so we would be better off violating the physical rather than the spiritual laws.
ELOHIM, of course understood this since he created the universe in the first place, so he gave us laws to live by, the Ten Commandments being the primary laws. We don’t obey them and we suffer the spiritual, emotional. Psychological, and physical repercussions as a result.
Nowhere is this more evident than in the present state of our single black women. She has been duped by this satanic sex crazed culture into having no regard for the two things that are most precious in the eyes of her ELOHIM and that would have been the delight of her noble husband. Her virtue and her virginity. People may say that this is old fashioned, and prude, that we as a people have evolved from that old puritanical draconian standard but what has this so called freedom gotten us as a people and what has it gotten the black women today let’s see.
Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
Based on that one scripture we see that Yahuah has his hand in our so -called modern relationships. His words are not mocked. Everyone pays a price when we violate the 7th commandment.
ChatGPT said:
ChatGPT
The observation suggests that for women, engaging in relationships with multiple sexual partners can lead to emotional and spiritual confusion because of the lingering connections formed with previous partners. This concept is rooted in the idea that sexual encounters create deep bonds that impact a person's emotional and spiritual state. Here’s a deeper look into this perspective:
1. Emotional Confusion
Bonding and Attachment: Many believe that sexual intimacy creates a powerful emotional bond. This bond can be amplified by the release of hormones like oxytocin, which is associated with bonding and attachment. When a woman has multiple partners, she may develop attachments to each of them, leading to conflicting emotions.
Identity and Influence: It’s often suggested that in close, intimate relationships, people can take on aspects of their partners’ personalities, interests, or beliefs. With multiple partners, these influences may lead to an identity crisis, where a woman may feel torn between various emotional influences, affecting her sense of self and stability.
Feelings of Loss and Guilt: Some women may experience feelings of loss or guilt after multiple relationships end. Each relationship may leave an emotional imprint, making it difficult to move on fully. These residual feelings can complicate future relationships, making it hard to form a deep, clear emotional connection with a new partner.
2. Spiritual Confusion
African-American woman experiencing deep spiritual confusion, torn between different forces while still connected to her soul-tied husband.
Spiritual Bonding: Many spiritual perspectives hold that sexual intimacy is not purely physical but also spiritual. The idea here is that each sexual encounter creates a spiritual bond, or “soul tie,” with the partner. With multiple partners, these spiritual bonds can accumulate, leading to a feeling of fragmentation or disconnection from one’s spiritual core.
Conflict of Energies: When spiritual connections from past relationships remain unresolved, they can create conflicting energies or influences in one’s life. For example, a woman may find herself drawn to aspects of past partners, even when these traits are not aligned with her current values or goals. This may lead to confusion or internal conflict, as she might feel pulled in different directions spiritually.
Difficulty in Spiritual Connection: For those who believe that spiritual well-being is linked to a focused and undivided spirit, multiple spiritual attachments can create distractions and hinder one’s ability to connect deeply with ELOHIM or with oneself. Many suggest that spiritual clarity requires a degree of purity, which can be challenging to maintain with unresolved spiritual ties to multiple individuals.
3. Implications for Future RelationshipsAfrican-American woman comparing her soul-tied husband with new potential partners, showcasing her emotional conflict and choices primarily due to fornications with previous lovers.
Comparison with New Partners: If previous spiritual and emotional connections remain unresolved, a woman may find herself unconsciously comparing a new partner to past ones. This can prevent her from fully engaging in the present relationship, as she may try to find traits from multiple past partners in her current partner, leading to dissatisfaction.
Challenges in Emotional Openness: Emotional confusion from past relationships may make it challenging for a woman to be fully open and vulnerable with a new partner. The emotional residue from previous partners may result in emotional guards, affecting intimacy and trust.
Struggle with Commitment: With multiple spiritual and emotional bonds, it may become harder to commit deeply to one person, as conflicting past attachments can make it difficult to feel fully grounded in a new relationship.
4. Healing and Moving Forward
Self-Reflection and Spiritual Cleansing: Many spiritual traditions encourage self-reflection, prayer, and practices like meditation to cleanse oneself of past emotional and spiritual attachments. This process involves acknowledging the past, seeking forgiveness (from oneself and from ELOHIM), and consciously letting go of old ties.
Building a Renewed Sense of Self: For a woman to regain clarity, she may need to spend time focusing on her identity apart from past relationships. This can include reconnecting with her values, goals, and interests, as well as surrounding herself with positive influences that support her personal growth.
Establishing Clear Intentions for Future Relationships: After understanding the impact of past connections, a woman may benefit from setting clear intentions for future relationships. This could mean seeking relationships that align with her values and pursuing partners who encourage spiritual and emotional wholeness.
5. Spiritual Perspectives on Sexuality and Relationship Building
Many spiritual traditions regard sexuality as a sacred act, one that ideally takes place within a context of commitment and mutual respect. Engaging with multiple partners outside of this framework can sometimes create internal conflicts for individuals who view sexuality as inherently tied to spirituality.
From this perspective, relationships are seen as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. The emotional and spiritual confusion that may result from multiple connections can hinder one’s ability to grow authentically and can detract from the potential for deep, meaningful, and transformative relationships.
In summary, this observation is based on the idea that sexual encounters involve more than just physical contact—they include emotional and spiritual dimensions that can accumulate over time, especially with multiple partners. For some women, these accumulated bonds may lead to confusion, conflict, and a sense of disconnection from their own emotions and spirituality. By recognizing these dynamics, individuals may choose to pursue healing practices, foster self-awareness, and cultivate a clearer understanding of what they seek in future relationships.
Is ministering to a woman a form of lovemaking?
ChatGPT said:
Ministering to someone, including a woman, is not a form of lovemaking. Ministering typically refers to providing spiritual guidance, support, or care and helping someone grow in their faith or find healing. It’s about offering comfort, counsel, prayer, and encouragement rooted in spiritual or religious principles.
Key Differences Between Ministering and Lovemaking
Purpose:
Ministering: The goal is to help someone grow spiritually, offer comfort, provide guidance, and support their emotional and spiritual needs. It's a form of service that encourages a deeper relationship with ELOHIM, not with the person providing the ministry.
Lovemaking: Lovemaking refers to physical and emotional intimacy shared between partners. It typically involves a romantic or marital relationship and is a mutual expression of love, trust, and physical connection.
Nature of Interaction:
Ministering: The interaction is compassionate, but it remains non-romantic and non-sexual. It involves prayer, sharing wisdom, listening, and offering comfort, typically within boundaries that maintain respect and professionalism.
Lovemaking: Lovemaking involves physical expressions of intimacy, which are exclusive to a romantic partnership or marriage. It includes an emotional, physical, and sometimes spiritual bond between two people in a way that ministering does not.
Emotional and Spiritual Boundaries:
Ministering: Boundaries are very important. Ministering should come from a place of genuine care and respect, and maintaining clear boundaries helps protect both the minister and the person receiving ministry from emotional entanglement or misunderstandings.
Lovemaking: In contrast, lovemaking involves an intentional lowering of emotional boundaries within the safety of a committed, exclusive relationship. It’s a very personal and vulnerable interaction, distinct from the type of intimacy found in ministering.
The Role of Love in Ministering
While love is certainly a part of ministry, it’s an unconditional, agape (selfless) type of love that reflects care for the other person’s well-being. Ministering can and should involve love, but it’s the love of Christ being expressed through support and encouragement. It’s about pointing the person toward a deeper relationship with ELOHIM rather than forming a personal attachment or romantic connection.
Avoiding Misinterpretation
Due to the emotional closeness that can sometimes develop through ministering, it’s crucial to maintain clear boundaries and uphold the purpose of the relationship. Compassion, empathy, and respect should be balanced with a sense of professional or spiritual detachment, ensuring that ministering remains focused on the individual’s spiritual and emotional health. Ministers are often advised to be mindful of these boundaries, especially in pastoral counseling settings, to ensure the interaction remains appropriate.
Conclusion
Ministering and lovemaking are fundamentally different. Ministering is a spiritual and compassionate act of service, while lovemaking is an expression of romantic and physical intimacy. Both can involve deep emotional connection, but their intentions, boundaries, and contexts differ significantly. Ministering is about guiding someone spiritually, helping them find healing or direction, and offering support—an act of love in a very different form from romantic love.
Would ministering create a bond and a soul tie?
ChatGPT said:
Yes, ministering to someone can create a bond, and in some cases, it might be referred to as a form of soul tie, although it is different from the romantic or sexual soul ties often discussed in spiritual contexts. Here’s how and why ministering can create a bond, and how to navigate this connection:
Understanding the Bond Formed Through Ministering
Ministering often involves emotional intimacy, trust, and vulnerability. When someone shares personal struggles, pain, or spiritual challenges, they open themselves up to the minister. In turn, the minister provides guidance, empathy, and support, which can create a close connection. This bond is often rooted in shared spiritual experiences, mutual respect, and a desire for personal growth.
When and How a Soul Tie May Form
The term “soul tie” generally describes a deep emotional or spiritual connection between two people. While soul ties are commonly associated with romantic or sexual relationships, they can also form through intense spiritual connections, such as:
Emotional Dependence: If the person being ministered to becomes very reliant on the minister for spiritual guidance or emotional support, this dependency can create a bond similar to a soul tie.
Spiritual Exchange: Ministering often involves prayer, listening, and the sharing of spiritual insights, which can foster a connection that feels spiritually significant.
Sharing of Vulnerabilities: Both the minister and the person being ministered to may share personal experiences, leading to an emotional bond that can feel like a soul tie.
Healthy vs. Unhealthy Soul Ties in Ministering
Healthy Bond: A healthy bond is one where both the minister and the individual maintain clear boundaries, and the relationship remains focused on the individual's spiritual growth and well-being. This type of bond can strengthen spiritual growth, accountability, and mutual encouragement in a way that supports both people.
Unhealthy Bond: When a minister and the person receiving ministry become emotionally dependent on each other, the relationship can blur boundaries and lead to an unhealthy attachment. This can create an inappropriate level of personal entanglement, which can hinder the individual’s growth and distract from their relationship with ELOHIM.
Maintaining Boundaries in Ministering
To prevent an unhealthy soul tie, it’s essential for both parties, especially the minister, to keep certain boundaries:
Professional Distance: Ministers are often trained to remain compassionate yet objective, avoiding personal emotional involvement.
Encouraging Independence: The goal of ministry is to help individuals strengthen their relationship with ELOHIM. Ministers should encourage the person to seek ELOHIM directly and avoid fostering dependency on themselves.
Accountability: Ministers can work with others, such as fellow ministers or spiritual advisors, to ensure that boundaries are being upheld and that the focus remains on the individual’s growth.
When a Soul Tie Becomes Problematic
If a ministering relationship develops into an unhealthy attachment, steps can be taken to reset the boundaries. This can involve:
Prayer and Reflection: Both individuals can take time to pray and reflect on the nature of their bond, asking for guidance to refocus on ELOHIM.
Counseling: Seeking counsel from other spiritual leaders or a mentor can provide clarity and help reestablish appropriate boundaries.
Intentional Space: Sometimes, a temporary break or reduction in contact can help both parties reset and refocus on spiritual growth.
Conclusion
Ministering can indeed create a bond, and in some cases, this bond may be described as a form of soul tie. However, unlike romantic or sexual soul ties, the bond formed through ministering should ideally be a healthy and balanced connection that fosters spiritual growth. By maintaining clear boundaries and focusing on the person’s relationship with ELOHIM, a minister can prevent an unhealthy soul tie and ensure that the bond remains spiritually uplifting.
A HUSBAND MINISTERING TO HIS WIFE: A FORM OF SPIRITUAL COVERING?
ChatGPT said:
The idea of a husband providing a spiritual covering for his wife is often discussed in Christian circles, particularly within complementarian theology. This perspective sees the husband as having a God-given role to lead, protect, and spiritually guide his wife and family.
Biblical Basis
Ephesians 5:23 – "For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior."
This verse is often cited to support the idea that a husband has a leadership role that includes spiritual responsibility.
1 Corinthians 11:3 – "But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God."
This suggests an order of spiritual authority, where the husband is responsible for his wife's well-being under Christ.
1 Peter 3:7 – "Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers."
This shows that a husband’s relationship with his wife has spiritual implications.
What Does Spiritual Covering Mean?
The term spiritual covering can mean:
Intercession – A husband prays for his wife and family, covering them in prayer.
Leadership – He provides spiritual direction, encouraging Bible study, church involvement, and faithfulness.
Protection – He guards against spiritual influences that may be harmful to his family.
Example – He leads by living a godly life.
Is It Absolute?
While a husband has a leadership role, a wife's relationship with God is personal. The husband is not a mediator between her and God—only Christ holds that role (1 Timothy 2:5). A wife also has her own spiritual authority and gifts from God.
Conclusion
A husband's spiritual covering is not about control but about loving leadership and intercession. It aligns with Christ’s servant-leadership model, where he nurtures and supports his wife’s faith rather than imposing authority over her.
How Spiritual Covering Applies in Marriage Today
The idea of a husband providing spiritual covering can play out in practical ways in a modern marriage, but it must be understood biblically and relationally rather than as an authoritarian role. In today’s context, spiritual leadership in marriage should be a partnership that reflects Christ’s love and sacrifice rather than control or domination.
1. Spiritual Covering Through Leadership (Servant-Leadership)
A husband leads not by force but by example, just as Christ leads the church (Ephesians 5:25).
He encourages his wife’s spiritual growth, ensuring they both remain rooted in faith.
This includes praying together, studying scripture, and making faith-based decisions as a team.
📝 Example: A husband might suggest praying together before making major life decisions (e.g., career moves, parenting choices) rather than deciding on his own and expecting his wife to follow.
2. Spiritual Covering Through Protection
A husband spiritually protects his wife and family by standing firm against negative influences (spiritual, emotional, or physical).
He helps discern God’s will for their family.
Protection also includes maintaining a home environment that honors God.
📝 Example: If his wife is struggling with doubt, anxiety, or spiritual warfare, he actively prays for her, encourages her, and leads their home in faith rather than leaving her to handle it alone.
3. Spiritual Covering Through Encouragement and Growth
A husband’s role is to nurture his wife’s spiritual gifts, not suppress them.
He should support her callings and ministry, recognizing that she, too, has a direct relationship with God.
He does not replace her personal responsibility to seek and follow God but serves as a partner in the journey.
📝 Example: If a wife feels called to a certain ministry, a godly husband would encourage and support her, helping her fulfill God's purpose in her life.
4. Mutual Submission and Shared Responsibility
Ephesians 5:21 says, "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ."
While the husband is called to lead, biblical leadership is not about dominance but self-sacrificial love.
A wife also has spiritual authority in her home, and both should submit to Christ first.
📝 Example: A wife can also pray over her husband and provide spiritual covering for him when he is struggling, reinforcing the idea that marriage is a partnership, not a hierarchy.
5. What Spiritual Covering Is NOT
🚫 Not about control – A husband is not meant to dictate his wife's every spiritual move.
🚫 Not about replacing Christ – Yahusha is the ultimate spiritual covering for both husband and wife.
🚫 Not about superiority – A wife is not spiritually weaker; she has equal access to God.
Final Thoughts
A husband’s spiritual covering is about love, protection, and guidance, not power or control. The goal is to mirror Christ’s relationship with the church—a relationship of love, sacrifice, and grace. In a healthy marriage, both spouses uplift each other spiritually, making them stronger together in Christ.
WHEN WE ENGAGE IN WHOREDOM, ADULTERY, AND FORNICATION WE SABOTAGE PRESENT AND FUTURE BLESSINGS. BOTH FOR THE WOMEN WHO WOULD HAVE BEEN SOMEONE’S WIFE AND THE HUSBAND’S SEARCH FOR ONE NOW TAKES THE MUCH LONGER. REMEMBER PROVERBS 31:10-12
Pro 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
Pro 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
Pro 31:12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
KELVIN L. STUBBLEFIELD IS A GRADUATE OF Middle Tennessee State University IN 1983.
HE IS THE AUTHOR OF “AMERICAN REPROBATE: GOD'S CURSE AND RESTORATION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN”. THAT WAS PUBLISHED IN 2012.
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