Sister’s Fear of Success... (His Success Revisited)

May 16, 2025

Sister’s Fear of Success... (His Success Revisited)

By KL Stubblefield | Originally written: November 12, 2014 | Expanded Edition: 2025

INTRODUCTION: A Quiet Terror Hidden Beneath the Surface

On the surface, many Black women walk with confidence, power, and assertiveness. They lead movements, earn degrees, command corporate respect, and dominate household decision-making. But underneath that façade lies a deep spiritual tremor—one few dare to name:

A fear of the Black man’s true rise.

Not just any rise.
Not the rise of rappers, athletes, or government-funded community organizers.
But the rise of the righteous, self-governed Black man—the priest, the protector, the patriarch.
The one who walks in covenant with YAHUAH and demands holiness, order, and nationhood.

This fear is not born of logic.
It is the fruit of generations of trauma, propaganda, and spiritual conditioning.
It is Willie Lynch psychology matured, metastasized, and internalized—so deeply rooted that many sisters now unconsciously conspire with white supremacy to keep the Black man from regaining his crown.

PART 1: THE UNSEEN CIVIL WAR—HIS SUCCESS AS HER THREAT

What if he really rose?
What if reparations were paid, land was acquired, borders were drawn, and the African American man began building a sovereign nation with his own moral code, economic system, and military order?

Suddenly, many Black women would no longer be able to play both sides.
They would be faced with the terrifying proposition:
Do I trust this man with the scepter… or do I cling to Pharaoh’s system for emotional security?

For many, Babylon offers comfort:

Government checks and jobs
Protection through state laws
Social validation through feminist theory
Power within a matriarchal community

But divine order threatens this arrangement.
YAHUAH calls for patriarchal leadership—not domination, but righteous headship.
This terrifies the modern, liberalized, Westernized Black woman, because it confronts every lie she’s been taught about freedom, identity, and power.

PART 2: THE DOUBLE AGENT SYNDROME—WHEN SECURITY REPLACES LOYALTY

Some Black women, knowingly or unknowingly, act as spiritual double agents.

They:

Reject righteous Black men while celebrating degenerate ones.
Promote matriarchy while criticizing male leadership.
Publicly denounce white supremacy while privately clinging to its benefits.

Why? Because Babylon rewards her betrayal.
For every act of insubordination against Black male authority, she is often rewarded by:

Affirmation from academia
Opportunities in media
Leadership in faith institutions
Social media applause

She is terrified of the white lash, so she preemptively allies with Pharaoh against Moses.

Like Eve reaching for the serpent’s promises, she trades God’s kingdom for Satan’s illusions.

PART 3: THE BLACK WOMAN IS THE BLACK CHURCH

The modern Black woman reflects the modern Black church—emotional, undisciplined, and deeply compromised.

Both say they love the King (Yahusha/Christ),
Yet neither want to submit to His order.

They cry and shout on Sunday,
But mock submission on Monday.

They proclaim holiness,
But sleep with Baal in secret.

They quote Scripture,
But redefine family, gender, and morality by secular standards.

The righteous Black man—like Christ—is rejected by both:
He is too holy, too firm, too structured.
She wants a man who will feel, not lead; submit, not govern.

PART 4: THE STRATEGIC DISMANTLING OF PATRIARCHY

America’s most effective tool of control over Black people has not been physical chains—but the psychological severing of our divine order.

The goal: Remove the righteous Black man from the home, church, and community.
In his absence:

Feminism flourished
Abortion was legalized and normalized
Homosexuality was promoted as empowerment
Hyper-individualism replaced covenant
Church doctrine was watered down to attract the masses

The modern church became a business.
The modern woman became a boss.
But the modern Black family became extinct.

And with that, the Black nation collapsed—spiritually, economically, and socially.

PART 5: THE STATS TELL THE STORY OF OUR SPIRITUAL DEATHThe statistics you've highlighted paint a sobering picture of various societal challenges in the United States. Here's an updated overview with the latest available data:

📊 1. Single Motherhood

As of 2023, approximately 9.8 million one-parent households existed in the U.S., with 7.3 million led by mothers. This means about 1 in 5 families with children under 18 are headed by single mothers. Census.gov Center for American Progress

🩺 2. Abortions

In 2024, nearly 1,038,100 abortions were provided in states without near-total bans, marking a slight increase from the previous year. The rise is partly attributed to increased access via telehealth services. AP News+3Time+3Guttmacher Institute+3 Digg+41AP News+41Axios+41

👶 3. Out-of-Wedlock Births

In 2022, 39.8% of all U.S. births were to unmarried women, totaling approximately 1.46 million births. KIDS COUNT Data Center+2CDC+2CDC+2

🧬 4. STD Rates

The U.S. reported over 2.4 million sexually transmitted infections in 2023. While this number remains high, recent data suggests the epidemic may be slowing. CDC+1World Health Organization+1

🔒 5. Incarceration

As of 2025, over 1.9 million individuals are incarcerated across various correctional facilities in the U.S., including state and federal prisons, local jails, and other detention centers. NSIN

⚖️ 6. Obesity and Poor Health

Between August 2021 and August 2023, the adult obesity rate in the U.S. was 40.3%, with women at 41.3% and men at 39.2%. Notably, West Virginia had the highest state obesity rate at nearly 41%. CDC New York Post

🛐 7. Spiritual Confusion

A 2024 study revealed that only 16% of American adults consider God the most important element in their lives. Furthermore, just 9% claim to have an intimate, interactive relationship with God. Arizona Christian University

These statistics underscore significant societal challenges, reflecting shifts in family structures, health, incarceration, and spiritual beliefs. Addressing these issues requires comprehensive strategies and a collective commitment to change.Vera Institute of Justice

Abortions
Out-of-wedlock births
STD rates
Incarceration
Obesity and poor health
Spiritual confusion

But we don’t repent.
We perform.

We have traded Zion for Sodom.
And still, we cry out, “God, bless America,” while rejecting His ways.

We are not in covenant.
We are Laodicea—lukewarm, self-deceived, and on the brink of being spewed out (Revelation 3:16-17).

PART 6: RETURN TO DIVINE ORDER—THE ONLY WAY OUT

Black women must:

Repent from compromise
Renounce feminism as a spiritual weapon
Reject Babylon’s rewards for betrayal
Recommit to the righteous Black man—not just romantically, but nationally

Black men must:

Walk in holiness
Reclaim priesthood
Lead in humility and strength
Build structures that reflect the Kingdom

This is not about gender wars.
This is about spiritual war.
And the enemy knows: if the Black woman submits to a righteous Black man under Yah, Babylon falls.

CONCLUSION: HIS RISE IS HER LIBERATION—IF SHE BELIEVES

The rise of the righteous Black man is not her oppression—it is her protection.

But to walk in that truth, she must crucify pride, forsake Pharaoh, and return to covenant.
Only then can the dry bones live. Only then can our nation rise.
Only then will our daughters learn the truth:

“Thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.” — Genesis 3:16
“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” — Ephesians 5:22
“And the remnant of Jacob shall be among the nations… like a lion among the beasts of the forest…” — Micah 5:8

Weep not, daughter of Zion.
But repent, rebuild, and return.
The King is rising. Will you help crown him? Or will you cling to Babylon and perish with her?

KELVIN L. STUBBLEFIELD IS A GRADUATE OF Middle Tennessee State University IN 1983.

HE IS THE AUTHOR OF “AMERICAN REPROBATE: GOD'S CURSE AND RESTORATION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN”. THAT WAS PUBLISHED IN 2012.

HE AND HIS WIFE SANDRIA, CO-FOUNDED “BIGSTUB CREATIONS” IN 2018. We are a vehicle for creativity! Our mission is to encourage individuals to utilize their artistic expression through the performing arts.

He has recently published his second book in November 2023.

STAYING HUMAN: EXAMINING THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN GOD, MAN AND ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE”.

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